The importance of the second date for men

Is your second date no less important than the first one?

Well, let’s say you met some girl at one of the free mobile dating websites, successfully arranged the first date and it passed entirely without incident (at least, you think so). What’s next? Yes, you have reached your aim, but why should you omit the importance of the second date? The reasons are quite simple. There are still too many various whatifs about the prospects of your relationships. What if she prefers to date with the men who are absolutely perfect during, for instance, the first dozen of dates? What if not everything was so ideal about your first date as you think? What if you haven’t noticed she wasn’t pleased with your first date and therefore decided to give you a second chance? And this list can be continued. Anyway, it’s too early to let your guard down, you know. Now the high time has come for you to nail down your success, unless you want to spoil the first good impression and all the progress achieved, of course.

Main things to consider on your second date

First of all, remember that your second date should differ from the first one. Try something new, be ready to show your originality, in order not to seem too predictable, boring and dull – the three things women use to secretly hate about men.

But it is important here, all things considered, that you should remain yourself – just the same way you were yourself during your first date (we hope you were not hiding behind one of your social masks on it, did you?). Bear in mind that one of the major turn offs for a second date is when your partner feels like she’s communicating a totally different person from your first date.

We also hope that for the first time you and your date spent great time together – it was fun for both of you. So, naturally, she would want like to continue it. That is why it’s so necessary that you should do your best and come up to her expectations.

She might be as well interested in getting to know you better, your personality, hobbies and interests, and so on. So don’t be surprised at her asking about all that. Just be honest enough to share anything that you think is important for her to know. There is no need to censor yourself here, but in case you don’t necessarily want to share something anything too personal, don’t. All people use to have enough things too intimate to be told on the second date, you know. That’s why share what you feel OK with, and not what you think she wants or is expecting to hear from you.