Although appearance is the thing you pay attention at in the first place, most women usually don’t like when they are estimated by their looks only. So what about her inner world, her thought and ideas? Just ask your girl about something – in fact, anything she’s interested in, anything that she really likes or finds interesting enough to be discussed on your date. Being engaged into such an easy conversation will let you both establish those first mental bridges and contacts between you. Show her you think she is smart – that might be one of the best unexpressed compliments for her.
Speaking of the forbidden topics during a date, talking about your exes is surely among the last and the worst things to be done during your date. Well, it’s perfectly OK if you remember about that, but what if she happens not to? In order to avoid those awkward pauses, when you just don’t know what to say, better fill in the silence with some words to support your date. Whatever her ex-boyfriend have done to her, whatever he told her – he is a loser and guilty by default, of any crime she mentions during a conversation. Even if you would have acted the same way he did – just don’t let her know about that. Call him mad or insane guy – that will help you a lot.
Learn how to give your woman a compliment when it’s necessary. Girls like when they are appreciated not for their looks or state of mind only. Be sure you praise her and admit her abilities (not necessarily outstanding ones) every time you both go horseback riding, kayaking, surfing – in a word, when you witness her being pretty good at any activity. Just be ready to let her know how well she coped with this or that stuff.
It makes no matter, whether you’re dating online at one of the free dating websites or it’s already you first or second date in real life. Keep in mind that telling her those words in addition with your usual formal good-bye phrases will be just great to help you show that you are really interested in her and ready for arranging your next meeting online or date. That will also let your girl know that you spent a really good time with her, had much fun and therefore want to enjoy her company one more time. The only thing to be remembered about here is that you should tell her that only if you really think so – your honesty will be important even more than ever.